Director of Operations

Perhaps not too many words and not too many wordsmiths can do justice to the impact mothers have had on our life.When you don’t have the words, at least not the right words and can’t weave a message to wish your mom… Just go simpleton and say “Thank you for everything, Director of Operations”.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HB3xM93rXbY

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My super-public habit tracker 

May: Exercise 1 Blogging 5 Meditation 1

Face the sun & you will never see the shadows!

Whether it is life or a person – if you always face the sun, you will never see the shadows. While there is a bit of innocence to it – it really helps a person grow.

On people: Frankl explained with his metaphor to crabbing that if you take a person as he/she really is, the default negative “crosswinds” in our mind make him/her worse. If we overestimate people, however, we promote them to what they really can be.

On a lighter note:

Some things in life are bad
They can really make you mad
Other things just make you swear and curse
When you’re chewing on life’s gristle
Don’t grumble, give a whistle
And this’ll help things turn out for the best…
And…

…always look on the bright side
of life…

The original Hellen Keller quote : “Keep your face to the sun and you will never see the shadows”

Thank you Vishal

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My super-public habit tracker 

May: Exercise 1 Blogging 4

Nudge Nudge Nudge – to the finish

In an ideal world, if we need to go from A to B – I would make a grand plan, execute it to perfection and we’ll go to the party.

In our world though, a lot of execution depends on people. People have different agendas, people have different emotions. Nudging i’ve found is very useful. I now plan to go from A to “somewhere close to B” – and each step of the way nudging people towards B. There are 2 outcomes:

1) If time is not urgent, this allows the other passengers to enjoy the journey to B. Better still, they start finding better ways to get there.

2) When people are initially hesitant to come with you on your journey – It helps keep the relationships while yet nudging them to the finish line.

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My super-public habit tracker – (looked through my archives  & the no-snooze shall be successfully retired) 

May: Exercise 0 Blogging 3

Public Goal Tracking

Earlier this year, I was counting 3 habits – Daily Exercise, Daily Blogging & waking up without snoozing. To my blog posts, i added a daily count like below:

My super-public habit tracker –

Mar: Exercise 4   Blogging 3   No snooze 4 

Feb: Exercise 13 Blogging 13 No snooze 28 

As you fall off the habit wagon, you stop reporting your numbers 🙂

The good thing with such “Super public” habit trackers is that it is “Super public”. Eventually someone asks sheepishly – “What happened to your super public habit tracker”. Good reason to bring it back 🙂

My super-public habit tracker – (looked through my archives  & the no-snooze shall be successfully retired) 

May: Exercise 0 Blogging 2

Apr: Exercise 5   Blogging 9   No snooze 30

Mar: Exercise 18   Blogging 11   No snooze 30

Feb: Exercise 13 Blogging 13 No snooze 28

Delegation & Micromanagement

Micromanagers can be painful. Previously I had only thought about micromanagement as a disease and suggested ways to get around it. I thought of autonomy was the way to go – empower people to do their work.

This matrix puts things in a slightly different light. Autonomy happens when you are working with a High Skill + High Will person. In other case you need to manage differently. My big mistake was to expect and to provide autonomy on Day 1. I’d provide some support wheels but it definitely centred around autonomy. Often though, this autonomy gave the person some high initial motivation & when things went sour they move into a very low will quadrant(“I cant do anything right”). This meant that micromanagement would start & we’ll have to build upwards from there.

Useful to realize that micromanagement has its place – perhaps on route to autonomy.

The Dilemma of eternity – Do we matter?

We are but a speck in eternity. Before us were our parents, grandparents, ancestors, dinosaurs, some micro-organism & the big bang. Ahead of us are our children, their children, alien invasion & apocalypse. Life existed before us & will go on after us. We are but a speck in eternity. Does anything we do even matter?

Everything before us did their bit to make us possible – our parents, grandparents, ancestors, dinosaurs, some micro-organism & the big bang. Our life in fact started with each of them and extends back to the big bang. Each of our actions now also determine how the timeline ahead of us shapes itself. Therefore, our life also extends forward to the end of time.  Our life is actually the entire timeline – it is eternity. Every action we take today will have repercussions on that entire timeline of life. We are eternity. Everything we do matters.

Thank you Shishir

Preventing micro management 

Easiest way I think is to just so much to do that micro management is impossible.

If you are the micro manager- give yourself more work when you find yourself intruding too much. Or go to the gym!

If you are the managed- ask your questions or point out other things that you were not able to do 🙂